perception Negative dillema
This counts because of “Consistency vs Self-enhancement Controversy”
key : people want to make that there are no difference “self” whether
it is viewed by them or others. so that is a fundamental motive,
but people also have a strong motive that they look better, believe
themselves enough good and competent. it is the SELF-ENHANCEMENT.
Is “Self-NEG, Other-POS” better than “Self-NEG, Ohter-NEG” ?